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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:27:08 +0000

“In place of dominant and oppressive-for-so-many relationship norms, Eve Rickert and Andrea Zanin offer abundant possibilities that not only disrupt those norms, but that better meet the desires, needs, skills, and life conditions of the individual humans who are trying to love and relate as best we can in this challenging world.”—from the foreword by Dr. Kim TallBear, Professor and Canada Research Chair in Indigenous Peoples, Technoscience and Society at the University of Alberta and the author of The Critical Polyamorist.

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:26:51 +0000

“Eve and Andrea's desire to create a resource that is practical, compassionate, conscientious, aware, educational, kind, and loving can be felt on every page and in every word. I am beyond excited to discover how this book impacts me as a more mature nonmonogamous person and that it exists as a resource to aid a new generation of nonmonogamous persons."—Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers, nonmonogamy educator and author of A Polyamory Devotional

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:26:21 +0000

“More Than Two was intensely formative in my polyamory journey. This new work keeps the practical throughline that makes the book effective and unique while adding even more depth and compassion. While we all carve our own paths and learn experientially, The New More Than Two is an indispensable guide through the terrain of nonmonogamy.”—Shay Tiziano, author of Tying & Flying and Creating Captivating Classes

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:25:59 +0000

“While More Than Two was always highly regarded, it was time for an update to adjust for the way the landscape has changed in the last decade. The New More Than Two more than meets the need.”—Kevin A. Patterson, M.Ed, author of Love’s Not Color Blind and the For Hire series

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:24:55 +0000

“Rickert and Zanin accomplish a tricky task, discussing an often-misunderstood topic in a direct but respectful manner. Without holding nonmonogamy up as in any way as superior to monogamy, they offer their readers a glimpse at the reality that nonmonogamy can hold as much joy and fulfillment for some as monogamy does for others.”—Race Bannon, author of Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun BDSM Lovemaking

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:24:41 +0000

“One of the best and most important contemporary books about love and relationships out there. It is essential reading, not only for those who are (or wonder if they are) nonmonogamous, but for their friends and families, and ultimately for anyone who wants to think carefully and deeply about what it means to love and respect one's partner(s). This book tackles a series of fraught—but urgent—ethical questions about how we behave towards those with whom we share our intimate lives, and it does so with exceptional sensitivity and nuance.”—Carrie Jenkins, author of What Love Is (and What it Could Be), Sad Love and Nonmonogamy and Happiness

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:23:44 +0000

“Get ready to engage in honest discussions about difficult subjects without cheerleading or boosterism. The New More Than Two is both warmhearted and clear-eyed. Recommended for existing practitioners and those curious about getting started.”—Marcus McCann, author of Park Cruising

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:23:24 +0000

“The New More Than Two leaves no stone unturned in offering guidance for weathering the highs, lows, and in-betweens of nonmonogamy. Monogamous folks will find a lot to value here, too: insights into growth and change, building trust, communication skills, and real talk about abuse, all written with great empathy and awareness of our very human vulnerabilities. A classic relationship book for everyone.”—Mo Daviau, bookseller and author of Every Anxious Wave

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:22:44 +0000

“In the years since the publication of More Than Two, the world has changed, we have changed, and, for many of us, the way we see that book has changed. Eve and Andrea have done something truly remarkable in taking what was good from the original edition and updating it to create a nonmonogamy resource for a new era; one that is full of wisdom, kindness, awareness, compassion, empathy, and useful practical information.”—JoEllen Notte, author of The Monster Under the Bed and In It Together

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:21:56 +0000

“I wish I had had something like this when I was starting off in polyamory—it may have helped to counteract so many of the incorrect perceptions I had. I love that this book frames nonmonogamy in a realistic way, acknowledging the struggles we all go through without stigmatising the emotions that most people will understandably feel. I feel grounded by the honest acknowledgement of the experiences and background of both authors—you understand more where they are coming from, which is an aspect that I feel usually missing from a lot of starter books for people interested in nonmonogamous relationships. There are so many complexities to consider around nonmonogamy and The New More Than Two does a truly great job of covering many bases extremely well.”—Lola Phoenix, author of The Anxious Person's Guide to Nonmonogamy

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:21:31 +0000

“Essential reading for anyone who wants to date humans and not be an asshole, whether you practice polyamory or not. I will no longer be dating people who have not read this book.”—Rachel Lark, writer and musician

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:20:44 +0000

“The New More Than Two revisits a popular nonmonogamy guide and deeply enriches it with experience, compassion, and gentleness towards people who are exploring the world of nonmonogamous intimacy. Whether your nonmonogamy is flavored more like relationship anarchy or polyamory, whether you are solo or multiply partnered, whether you're asexual or allosexual, there is quality information here that will help you navigate love in all its forms.”—Kitty Stryker, author of Ask Yourself,Say More and Love Rebels

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:19:54 +0000

“A captivating exploration of the complexities and joys of polyamory. In this insightful guide, they take readers on a journey beyond conventional relationship norms, offering practical advice, personal anecdotes, and thoughtful reflections on navigating multiple intimate connections. With warmth and wisdom, they challenge societal norms, offering a roadmap for creating fulfilling, ethical, and sustainable relationships. Whether you're new to polyamory or a seasoned practitioner, The New More Than Two is an essential resource for anyone seeking to cultivate love and connection in all its forms.”—Laura Antoniou, author of The Killer Wore Leather

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:19:06 +0000

“A beautiful deconstruction of how fairy tale mononormativity shapes our expectations for connection, with deep insight into more expansive ways of relating. With this new edition, The New More Than Two reminds us why it's a trusted primer on how to use courage, discernment, ethics, and empowerment to thrive in nonmonogamy. Whether you're new to exploring or looking for a sound refresh, this book is ready to walk you down the enriching and well-trodden pathways to opening up.”—Leigh Cowart, author of Hurts So Good

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:18:26 +0000

“When the first version of More Than Two came out, many referred to it as the poly Bible. I like to think that we've all collectively learned a lot since then, and it's nice to see a new incarnation of this book that has grown with us and been fine-tuned to address many more nuances. May we all continue to learn and grow, and keep noticing what is best for our own hearts, minds, and souls.”—Tikva Wolf, creator of Kimchi Cuddles comics and author of Ask Me About Polyamory

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:17:23 +0000

“Finally, a how-to book that I can recommend without reservation to the newly poly-curious and veteran nonmonogamists alike! The New More Than Two is for anyone who wants to practice conscientiousness and kindness in their connections with others. The practical, actionable advice for nonmonogamy flows intuitively from the thoughtful prompts for self-reflection.”—Eli Heina Dadabhoy, blogger at Heinous Dealings on The Orbit network

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:17:08 +0000

“At last, an update to a classic! It's wonderful to see this edition cover intersectionality and touch on more nuance and diversity within nonmonogamy. I’m so excited to recommend this book to anyone interested in nonmonogamy, even those who've been practicing for years.”—Michelle Hy, nonmonogamy educator, Polyamorous While Asian

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:16:47 +0000

“The New More Than Two validates the immense courage it often takes to begin—and continue—one's ethical nonmonogamy journey. The authors' breadth of experience is evident, yet not formidable. This is a powerful new addition to the library of ethical nonmonogamy and should be considered essential reading!"—Andre Shakti, polyamory pundit

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:16:23 +0000

“I often encounter people preaching the gospel of nonmonogamy and telling me (and others) how to do this thing we do—I've even been one of those people—but rarely is that advice worth much. In The New More Than Two Eve and Andrea have revitalized the original, making it a new essential book. Never preaching or condemning, they explain, examine, and explore in dialog with the reader. They reach out welcoming hands, saying not to be afraid of this lifestyle and that you can do it.”—Cooper S. Beckett, author of My Life on the Swingset and co-author of The Pegging Book

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:15:39 +0000

“The authors have seamlessly incorporated important topics such as decolonization into their riveting discussion of nonmonogamous structures and values. This is the More Than Two for a new empathetic and radical audience.”—Mainely Mandy, video essayist

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:15:17 +0000

“The New More Than Two is a much-needed expansion. A maturation, an improvement that is not just information, but heart and soul come to fruition. The authors have gone from ‘what you need to know’ to ‘what we have learned.’ Rickert and Zanin have given us the compassionate update that nonmonogamy, and the world, needed."—Zach Budd, LMSW

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:15:01 +0000

“The New More Than Two doesn't try to be a manual, a course, a quick reference, or a casual read, but it somehow reads as all of those and more. Eve and Andrea keep it accessible to people both new and experienced in multiple relationships by providing context, meaning, and history behind the language and jargon surrounding relationships, intimacy, and communication. It's deeply rewarding to dive in and see the complex and nuanced details and decisions about some of the most important parts of our lives given clarity, providing everyone with more options and more power to make decisions and create relationships and community."—Dylan T. Thomas, co-host of Life on the Swingset

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:14:37 +0000

“A true game changer in the field of nonmonogamy theory and education. Rickert and Zanin have crafted a smart, thorough, compassionate book that tackles many issues, including those others shy away from including misconduct and abuse. This book is useful for beginners and veterans alike and offers practical tools to nourish any kind of relationship.”—Tristan Taormino, author of Opening Up

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:14:15 +0000

“A wonderful updated resource that will be helpful for monogamous and nonmonogamous readers alike. The down-to-earth tone and the thoughtful consideration of ways to care for others, make this book an invaluable addition to the literature on relationships. I hope everyone reads it!”—Nora Samaran, author of Turn This World Inside Out

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 26 Oct 2026 22:13:55 +0000

"The New More Than Two is incredibly well researched. Woven throughout are important considerations of power, fairness, equity and respect for people's dignity and well-being. The New More Than Two provides an insightful and engaging examination of polynormativity, simultaneously providing ample opportunity for self reflection and practical guidance for being the best versions of ourselves in our relationships. I've already been incorporating material from the book into my practice and The New More Than Two is definitely on list of resources for clients in my practice—whether nonmonogamy is something new or old hat for them, there's a lot to be gained from reading this excellent book."—Stephen Biggs, MA, Registered Psychotherapist

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Hazel Boydell — Wed, 14 Oct 2026 16:34:13 +0000

"A sincere, wide-ranging look at masculinity, race, and belonging."—Kirkus

Comment on The Fundamentals of Erotic Dominance by Hazel Boydell

Hazel Boydell — Tue, 18 Aug 2026 16:04:54 +0000

“An intelligent and frank dissection of what makes coming together in kink absolute magic. I can feel and see the thousands of interactions and contemplations that it took to bring this book to life. Métatron Lau illustrates a glorious approach that illuminates the potential of how we can actually be in ourselves and truly relate to each other.”—Eva Oh, domanatrix and podcast host

Comment on The Art of Looking Back by Hazel Boydell

Hazel Boydell — Mon, 03 Aug 2026 10:01:16 +0000

“A thought-provoking book about how other people see us, with many applications for anyone inside or outside the art world.”—Winnipeg Free Press

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Hazel Boydell — Wed, 29 Jul 2026 17:37:58 +0000

“Kishkan’s beautifully rendered story explores power dynamics, personal responsibility, the relationship between artist and model, bodily autonomy, betrayal, and redemption. This story is many things: a reclaiming of identity, the setting straight of a historical record, a handbook for girls becoming women, a grace note—but most of all, it is a provocative and thoughtful work of art.”—Quill & Quire

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Hazel Boydell — Fri, 24 Jul 2026 18:11:33 +0000

“Métatron Lau brings a unique and grounded perspective to the world of erotic dominance, encouraging the reader to think about power exchange as a dynamic, living entity. While written primarily to tops and dominants, submissives and bottoms could gain a lot from this as well, particularly when it comes to the interwoven nature of trust and care. If you feel inspired to take your experience of BDSM to the next level, this is an excellent book to add to your library.”—Kitty Stryker, consent educator and author of Love Rebels: How I Learned to Burn It Down Without Burning Out

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Hazel Boydell — Tue, 21 Jul 2026 11:14:03 +0000

“The first book in a long time to go beyond basic how-to's of topping. Lau's explanations of the role of trust and flow in creating powerful, erotic scenes is closer to my experience with topping than I have seen reflected in most other writing. This is a great work for anyone looking to better understand and engage the true power of BDSM.”—Rebecca Blanton, author of Kinky and Complicated and The Big Workbook for Submissives

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Hazel Boydell — Wed, 01 Jul 2026 18:21:18 +0000

"So grateful for the abundance of intelligence, passion and humanity in these pages, which focus on the true center of dominance that sits in the mind-heart-soul, not in fancy gear or even technical skills. For those seeking sources of 'graduate-level' discourse around power exchange, Lau’s exquisitely queer, culturally sensitive, anti-capitalist, fabulously brainy yet deeply felt exploration of the 'moreness of kink' truly slaps."—Arielle Greenberg, author of Superfreaks: Kink, Pleasure and the Pursuit of Happiness

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 29 Jun 2026 17:24:43 +0000

“A rare look from the other side of the canvas.”—The Tyee

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 25 May 2026 12:41:07 +0000

“Beautiful and eye-opening. Cho seamlessly breaks down misconceptions of masculinity and race. A must read for anyone, regardless of gender.”—Laura Gao, author-illustrator of Messy Roots

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 25 May 2026 12:40:53 +0000

“Brotherhood is a Constant Possibility is truly remarkable. Ryan Cho’s vulnerability, insight and exploration of what it means to be an Asian man in the Western world has made me feel seen and understood in a way I don’t know if I’ve ever experienced from any form of media before. After reading this book, I’ve found a deeper connection to my own Asianness and would highly recommend it to anyone wanting to strengthen their own sense of identity.”—Will Jay, musician

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Hazel Boydell — Fri, 22 May 2026 10:11:20 +0000

“At its heart, this book is a memoir about being Chinese Canadian and about how racism and white supremacy shape the social construction and lived experiences of masculinity. It is also a book about belonging and becoming. Replete with stories about family, work, sex, and activism as well as insightful and thoughtful commentary on wide-ranging themes from consent to representation and popular culture, Ryan Cho helps us to understand ourselves, each other, and the world we have inherited. Rather than a narrative of despair, the book shows that social change is not only possible—it is already in the making.”—Georgia Sitara, PhD, History and Gender Studies, University of Victoria

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Hazel Boydell — Tue, 19 May 2026 20:31:03 +0000

“In a culture awash in strident polarity about gender, here is a rare offering of a nuanced balance of compassion and critical thinking about men, while also caring for all genders. Cho’s grounded and provocative weaving of courageous personal narrative, cultural markers and research data build a compelling call for a healthy, progressive vision of masculinity. About men and for everyone, this centering of the experiences of Asian men and masculine folx is a badly needed addition to the masculinity bookshelf.”—David Hatfield, Dip. PW, MA, MEd, men’s work leader and conflict facilitator

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Hazel Boydell — Tue, 12 May 2026 11:50:00 +0000

“Kishkan is a movingly precise raconteur.”—Catherine Owen, River Street Writing

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Hazel Boydell — Tue, 12 May 2026 11:32:16 +0000

“Brotherhood is a Constant Possibility is a deep and moving exploration of Asian masculinity and identity, and an unflinching examination of the invisible challenges many Asian men face in silence and isolation. The stories bring to light a discovery of love, healing, and self-acceptance that navigates towards a true belonging—a returning home to a self that we can be deeply proud of.”—John Wang, author of Big Asian Energy

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Hazel Boydell — Tue, 12 May 2026 11:31:38 +0000

“A crucial contribution to discussions on masculinity. No matter where you see yourself on the political spectrum, you will find something thought-provoking and worthwhile in this book.”—Nora Samaran, author of Turn This World Inside Out: The Emergence of Nurturance Culture

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 11 May 2026 11:31:58 +0000

“This book arrives at a poignant time, when civil liberties, discourse on racial equity, and queer and gender identity are under attack. Cho offers a thoughtful, heartfelt vision of hope and possibility for spaces to cultivate healthy masculinity, and for racialized men to explore and navigate their identities in a world that continues to be structured by patriarchy and white privilege. Weaving together lived experience alongside complex nuanced stories of gender, race, sexuality, ability, diaspora, and class, Brotherhood is a Constant Possibility not only offers strategies towards community building, but also lifts up untold voices, narratives and visions for more just futures.”—David Ng 伍達宏, co-artistic director, Love Intersections

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Hazel Boydell — Tue, 05 May 2026 11:50:51 +0000

“The way Cho explores Asian masculinity contributes to a vital conversation around gender that is rooted in discernment. As a progressive woman, I appreciate Cho's artful navigation around the nuances of what it means to be a man—which is not to take away what feminists have worked so hard for, but to understand that it is possible to have a separate conversation around Asian masculinity that is not dependent on nor detracts from feminism. Cho creates a space to discuss how masculinity should never be defined as simply the absence of misogyny, but a process that deserves its own necessary identity development.”—Joan Sung, author of Kinda Korean: Stories from an American Life

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 04 May 2026 10:53:42 +0000

"Theresa Kishkan grafts the artful candour of memoir onto a psychological labyrinth. But unlike the murky mazes of antiquity, the braided essays of Kishkan’s The Art of Looking Back provide passage to clarity, empathy, and lightness."—Michael Gurney, Coast Reporter

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 04 May 2026 10:26:31 +0000

“Through the personal, Ryan Cho is able to untangle the complicated and often unspoken connections between race, gender and masculinity. There is a real tenderness to his approach to these difficult conversations that allows the reader to be invited into the discussions, giving space for reflection. Through empathy and care, Ryan becomes a storyteller so that the research, data, and analysis of the cultural landscapes he’s writing in get to shine. This is a very accessible book.”—Anna Sulan Masing, author of Chinese and Any Other Asian

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 27 Apr 2026 11:52:54 +0000

“Through sharing his personal journey, Cho considers a form of brotherhood I’ve seldom seen—one that manages to decentralize colonialist, heteronormative, cisnormative masculinity—while providing thoughtful and actionable routes to more inclusive men's communities. Brotherhood is a Constant Possibility screams for compassion, vulnerability, and camaraderie among men of all walks.”—Mx. Nillin Lore, author of Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphobic and Queerphobic Baggage

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Hazel Boydell — Wed, 22 Apr 2026 14:19:31 +0000

Foreword INDIES Finalist (Family & Relationships), 2025
IBPA Book Awards Finalist (Political & Current Events), 2026

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 06 Apr 2026 14:59:02 +0000

“Too often, conversations about men fall into two positions. Men are either framed as the problem, or their struggles are dismissed because of their perceived privilege. Cho does not settle for either. He shows how loneliness, shame and the lack of emotional language are not just personal issues. They are shaped by broader conditions. This does not remove responsibility, but it does change how we understand the problem.”—from the foreword by Rahim Thawer, MSW, RSW, author of The Mental Health Guide for Cis and Trans Queer Guys

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Hazel Boydell — Thu, 02 Apr 2026 20:29:56 +0000

“A valuable guide for breaking down social pressures and expectations, laying out specific transphobic and queerphobic beliefs in plain language and exposing the underlying fear. Lore does not shy away from the sticky business of how harmful actions can also come from within our own LGBTQ+ community.”—Tamara Pincus, social worker and author of It’s Called Polyamory

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Hazel Boydell — Mon, 30 Mar 2026 16:18:37 +0000

“The pacing is as deliberate as a brush stroke, and Kishkan’s unflinching, vividly rendered reflections offer a powerful study of how art can both celebrate and appropriate the female form. A richly textured meditation on a reclamation of self from the frames of the past.”—Kirkus

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Hazel Boydell — Thu, 05 Mar 2026 15:28:42 +0000

“Theresa Kishkan writes beautifully about art and selfhood, about the timorous spirit of young women during an era that was repressive of their sexuality even while it held them accountable for men's desires and actions. For British Columbia readers, this is also a fascinating portrait of Victoria during the era of the significant Limners Society, a group of artists and writers that included (as well as Kishkan's portraitist), crucial figures like Myfanwy Pavelic and poet-critic Robin Skelton.”—Heidi Tiedemann Darroch, Canadian Women’s Crime Fiction